Just A Dad-A place for encouragement and support

Now, for those who don’t know me, my past was not my the greatest! Surprised? A guy comes on here speaks about love and relationships yet he himself should have practiced what he preaches. 

He should have built up trust, instead of cheating.

He should have communicated more, instead of being silent.

He should have given love to others instead of showing it to many.

Yes, my past experience with relationships was horrible. In fact, Jordan Peele should make a movie called “Flowe” because I’m sure people would be scared of how bad I treated people. However, I have moved on from my past and discovered myself again. I wish I could go back in time with the mindset and resources I have now…to make stuff better but, that’s the thing about life. Sometimes you need that one situation, to get your ass back on track(excuse my language). So before I continue please understand that I am not perfect but, I am a work in progress. I have owned up to my mistakes and since then, found God and purpose once again. I have looked that person in my past, in the eye, and said “I WILL NEVER BE YOU AGAIN!” I have continued to acknowledge that my past is not my present and I will be damned if it pours into my future. This blog site was created to share hope and inspiration for those who are struggling with their inner demons and is searching for some kind of light. This was created for that person who felt like they have fucked up so bad, that they no longer want to be a burden on anyone they come in contact with. Sorry but, this needs to be addressed! We live in a world where people will bypass you, and make a V line to that closet…which holds your skeletons. 

People will create an educated list of every single wrong thing you done, and not see that person who is bettering themselves today. They will point out every flaw that you longer inherit and place it on a pedestal without taking a look at the art that is you…in front of them! We need to stop being like this! Some people forget that they themselves made mistakes and have flaws yet no one calls them out! They forgot that person in the mirror staring back at them…no where near perfect. They use their wannabe self image as paint to cover up their own shortcomings. JUST STOP! Before you come at someone, attacking and criticizing them while constantly pointing out who they WERE and not who they ARE NOW…take a look at yourself only there will you see the truth.